Wedding Traditions for Grooms
Strange as it may seem the use of a wedding ring by men was not common until recently. Whereas women have worn wedding rings for eons, men have not. The use of rings as a symbol of everlasting love enshrined in marriage can be traced back thousands of years. But not so much for men.
It was, in fact, during the second world war that the use of wedding rings by men became more common. (Note that for the purpose of this conversation, the terms "ring" and "band" are interchangeable, both meaning the same thing.)
It became the custom for US soldiers going to war to publicise their marital status by wearing their own wedding rings. They were happy to make public their commitment to their wife by the wearing of a public symbol that declared that commitment to all. Given that this habit of wearing men's wedding bands was reasonably new it was all the more creditable that these men were willing to forego the marital obscurity available to them from not wearing a ring and actively chose to make a public statement about their choice.
Even though these rings are almost universally regarded as the special exception to this supposed "rule", they are still, in the eyes of some men, effeminate. (One wonders what they find so distasteful about the feminine, but that's another article.) They feel that "real men" don't wear rings or jewellery at all. This is becoming less of an issue as the wearing of wedding bands by men becomes more common, but is still an issue with some men.
Despite the fact that the wearing of a ring by a woman is a matter of choice, it is in fact almost obligatory due to the fact that it is so common. Many women do not even consider the possibility of not wearing one. Often, however, a man usually considers the wearing of a ring very carefully.
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Filed under Fashion by on Jan 25th, 2012.
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